Alone

The picture above shows us several definitions for the word "alone". There are many definitions for "alone", however, the word "alone" that I meant is being alone without people that you know or that usually are with you. Have you ever been that kind of alone? I'm sure you guys must have been alone too. Sadly too said that, I've felt alone for quite sometimes. Being alone is really hurt.

Imagine that you have a best friend and your best friend is really happy spending his time with you, and then suddenly he gone. You must have felt really sad and lost. Anyway, it's not so hard to find new friends but you might want to have friends that really know you better than anyone else. However, that's not the problem. The problem is how to coop with your stress for being a loner and what should we do when we feel alone. First thing first, we must recognize your problem that has lead us to be a loner. Then, we'll know what to do.

First of all, like I have mentioned earlier, we must know our problem. If the problem leads you to be a loner, then try to spend your time with your family members. What ever happen to you please do confront it with your parents. Having your leisure time with your father or mother by sharing your problem with them. This will help you a lot. Our parents might have experienced what had happen to you. Maybe it'd happened to them before. We don't know. To be a loner is really bad but there must be way to handle it.

Besides, when you are alone, try to use it as your opportunity to make your things done. Sometimes we don't have time for ourselves because we might have spent most of our time with friends. Not to say they are all the problem caused you to waste your time, but to show that when you are alone you actually have time for your own. Sometimes being alone is not that bad because you actually have your own time for you to maybe prepare yourself or develop your skill and many more.

All in all, frankly speaking that your problem somehow can be your advantage. You just have to adapt with what will happen to you and be tough. Indeed, problems we have faced or will face are actually the challenges that will only make us stronger than before. Be good then when you are alone.